Suppose you have a member of your faimly, (PERSON A), that accuses you, (PERSON B) of something you did not do. This causes tremendous trouble for every area of your life. The after effects will be long reaching and long lasting.
PERSON C-Your closest confident in the family, by all appearances sides with PERSON A, cutting off (so it would seem), all ties, connections and communication with you. Yet...things are not as they seem.
On the sly, PERSON C, continues to sneak around talking to PERSON B,spending time (which must be kept secret, especially from PERSON A),calling for advice, offering information about PERSON A, even asking for your assistance to help PERSON A.
PERSON C-May seem to have doubts that PERSON A is telling the truth, in fact, PERSON A has said many things that would indicate they are not telling the truth and have something to hide. Yet, PERSON C, under the banner of being neutral, decides to keep their mouth shut and not to share their concerns or suspicions with the rest of the family.
WHAT IS GOING ON HERE WITH PERSON B AND PERSON C?
IF YOU ARE PERSON B....WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
IF YOU ARE PERSON C.....WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
Later Ya'll...^Belle^
Person C is an enabler, liar and user.
Person B, if going along with this is missing something upstairs. Allowing yourself to be used says low self esteem to me, or a control freak bound and determined to hold on at any cost.
What was the other question?
It seems like there is a very tight bond between B and C. So tight to the point where B can't see the forest for the trees.
If I am Person B, I would tell them both to kiss my hairy ass.
If I am Person C, I would step up and do the right thing.
And/or AzRon's intellectual answer, educated!
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What are the sexes of the people involved?
If this were a romantic situation and Person B is male, I would say Person B is "meow" WHOOPED and don't wanna lose his yummy mummmy.
If Person B is female, which would be the most likely scenerio, she is desperate for love and holding on with everything she has to avoid losing her man (Person C), even at the cost of self respect.
I swear Bird! Where do you come up with these questions!
What ever problem there is between A & B..should be handle between them..
I'm sure you already know this..just making sure huh...Smiles...
Have a great Day Belle
Smiles to you
Maybe "B" should stay far away from both of them until they decide to grow up. The people in B's life that really know her/him will know what to & not to believe.
Bear Hugs!
PolarB ;)
Some folks just can't get that through their thick skulls until it bites them in the ass.